Where is her father?!

Meghan Markle reportedly wants her mother Doria Raglan to walk her down the aisle for her wedding to Prince Harry in May, Us Weekly reports. Her father Thomas is still alive and they were very close growing up, so we’re wondering if she’s trying to hide something. Perhaps her dad just doesn’t like the spotlight?

The new “It” couple won’t be doing things the way they’ve been done for centuries when it comes to their nuptials, either.

“With the wedding, they both want to do things their way. While they will always be mindful of traditions and the views of their elders, the day is ultimately about them and what they want to do. The day of the wedding itself will certainly hold a few unconventional surprises. Don’t expect a royal wedding by numbers. They want to involve their friends and family as much in as much as possible throughout the day,” a source dished to the mag.

“Harry has never been one to follow instructions and both he and Meghan are extremely independent individuals. I wouldn’t imagine for one second that they plan to sit back and be told what to do — and they won’t. Their romance feels refreshingly modern and I think that’s something that everyone at Kensington Palace has felt incredibly excited by,” the source added.

As for other details? Well, there aren’t many, but here are some of our guesses. She’s going to chose BFF/stylist Jessica Mulroney and pal Serena Williams as bridesmaids, as well as designer Mischa Nonoo. The pair will begrudgingly invite the Trumps, but will also invite the Obamas. The Suits star will buck tradition and go for a very simplistic and sophisticated gown, and she’ll wear one of Princess Diana’s tiaras.

We’re totally obsessed with this American princess!